Don't reach out to him to resolve anything MG. Remember what I said about boundaries feeling "wrong" when you aren't used to setting them and sticking to them? That's what happening here.
You did a fine job communicating with you H. Whatever emotion he has is on him. He made his bed, now he has to lie in it. That's not cruel... just a natural consequence to actions. NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS OR DOES.
Continue to work on tolerating that "wrong" feeling. It will get easier!
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
