Originally Posted by Valeska19
"H - Please send a list of what you need and I'll be happy to put in the garage and to schedule a time when you can come pick it up."
THIS!

Remove all of your emotional response when dealing with him. (Go ahead and feel it and express it away from him.)

Have you changed the locks?

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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