15 years later

[grok]

Hi exquisite,

I have not posted in ages.

Thank you for coming back and posting.

I am reluctant to post to others. Most people come on here in hope of salvaging their marriage.

I’m one of them. And yet. And yet. I have to save myself first. I have to understand more of the reality to do either.

I came to try and understand what has happened and what MLC is.

This.

Though my story is not like yours… at the details… yet many of the bigger themes remain the same. They all point to working on yourself. You can’t fix the other person. Don't try and use logic on their choices. The timelines are very long.

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