Her parents helped her behave, get things done, not keep things that were garbage and be organized in the task at hand. They basically repeated everything I was saying but as I'm seen as an enemy and her bitterness of me leaving has put blurry spectacles on how she sees things. Having her parents here also kept her from being disrespectful and ill tempered. I have nonetheless throughout been kind and cordial, even said I'd give her a hand with my rented truck taking and offloading her things which were my things before but since she's taking all and I'm taking none it takes these items off my hands. I also offered to have car repaired (needs ac freon and odb reset) at her expense of course, as my friend is the mechanic and I can trust him and he does good and affordable job, despite the car already being under her name and the financial adjustment already made on separation. It also gives me a chance to get out of the home as I have very few items to entertain myself with and house is mostly empty or boxed up and my bags are packed, I've shipped what I've had to overseas and my remaining items will be gone this weekend. I realized right away I overreacted but at least when I got back and cooled off there was a decent apology from her. It ended up being productive and mediator appointment went well. I don't feel I hate her anymore for what she's done, but rather disappointed in what we are both losing. I never discuss her personal life or what has transpired before as I feel it's misspelt energy, my incident yesterday was more borne out of direct disrespect and basically her irking any responsibility to take her things out of here out of timely manner. Her parents at least helped her get through enough things that I can now go to local dump in small available time window which they are open to public with basically all the waste. Had her parents not come, I'd be sorting through her things and then if I'd trash things she wanted I'd have to deal with complaints.
All that being said I'm kind of looking forward to finally putting this to an end and having my flight, will be the first time my brother and I will both be together with parents in roughly 8 years so it will be a nice change, and July tends to be loaded with festivals and great weather. It starts as a vacation and morphs into a new life gradually. I'm making sure that I unwind for a couple weeks minimum and then get started on my future plans there of which there are a few.
