R2C - I agree 100%. I continue to do this work because I'm confident it helps me be a better person, live more consistently with reasonable values, and is the example I want to provide to D14. Your thoughtful words and those of others on this board remain invaluable. I appreciate how generously people offer their feedback and with positive intentions. At different points in life, I lost sight of that growth and improvement (it's hard! it takes stamina!) and am committed to not letting that happen again.