What can I do differently?

[Ready2Change]

If you chase a child, the child runs away. If you run away from the child, the child cases you. Same with your dogs.

Can you clarify that the child is H? If this is true, I have seen some of the chasing but continue to wonder if its a chase in response to me going NC (except providing responses) or if H is simply a clingy boomerang.

Basic human nature. Sometimes completely subconscious.

That is why we recommend all of the DBing rules and sandies list.

Your ultimate goal is to have H pursuing you. You become interesting because you are doing your thing and NOT pursuing him.