R2C: do you think H is pursuing me (on a small scale!) with his texts of 'care' or is H a clingy boomerang?
I am following your sitch "Loosly"...IE not into all the details. My input is more based on my understanding of what works in most cases for most people.
If you chase a child, the child runs away. If you run away from the child, the child cases you. Same with your dogs.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712