Yet, I can't help but wonder if H is trying and looking for me to nudge him towards 'us'.
It is better if he is pursuing you. He needs to feel like he has lost you.
Originally Posted by MamaG
Is this a good response?: Yes, I'm nearly back to myself. While you're unable to be an appropriate husband, I can only love you from a distance. When you choose to be an appropriate husband, we could discuss what to do to repair our marriage. Until then, I hope that time and space continues to help you with your happiness.
better:
Yes.
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