I should also point out that H and I pray in the car on our way to appts. Several times from Jan to Apr, H asked God to help us figure ourselves out. One of those times, H seemed to have more directly asked for help and when I questioned him because I didn't catch what he said, H got defensive and for the next couple appts, H declined to pray with me. When H declined, I let him know that it isn't God's fault that H is going through this and that God is the only person who can help him. He can't do it alone. He listened but don't know what he thought of it. H did return to praying with me in May (once) before visits ended.
Also, I suspect that H's replay activities (medications if you will) have continued. I guess I don't exactly know as H isn't home and I've no engaged in conversation (DBing).
