Catman, you've gone from needing help a few months back to now providing sound advice and encouragement. I'm learning to turn a corner and oddly, see what you point out after you say it.

I picked up a few books and have been reading. Detachment info was the most enlightening so far. Divorce Remedy is an easy read...taking notes for a later date bc right now I'm detaching. NC.

Tide of emotions, sometimes even all in the same day - yup
Childish / teenager behavior / coping with substances and externa things to fill void - yup
Rock and the shining light in a time of thunderstorm - yup

As DnJ once said, lighthouses don't chase the ship....or was it look for the ship. Anyway, you get me.

And now some Netflix with D21.