Firstly, please don't call yourself names like "I'm weak".
Spot on!
One’s mind is always listening and will craft/reinforce the viewpoint/reality you ask of it.
I agree, MamaG is an incredible and strong woman and person! As folks here are! They are just hurt and betrayed so badly; with their self confidence/worth having taken one heck of a beating.
To the new folks and posters: For proof of the fortitude I speak, consider the act of posting here. To lay out one’s situation, one’s frustrations, one’s pain and heartbreak, takes strength and courage. Of course, lots of first posts are finally decided or pushed to fruition by one’s desperation. Yet, even in that, one is reaching towards something, reaching for something better. The underpinnings of that, the willingness, is the strength of one’s character.
I understand and empathize with how weak one feels. And, feelings are fleeting. Be strong. Stand strong. Feel your feelings, and let them flit away. Believe me, heck believe in yourself, your true self is much deeper than you presently feel it is.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
