Just a quick reply for tonight. I was in charge of S18's baseball team banquet and H stayed to help me clean up. He could have gone home with S18 but he stayed and help me put everything in the car. Didn't help me get it out of the car but I'll take what I can get.

I sense that he's putting some level of effort in despite his stated goal of moving out. He knows (somewhere deep in his brain) that my love language is acts of service, so I feel like all is not lost. He really wavers between being "normal" and being short tempered but I guess that's all par for the course.

He was out very late on his man date but he did text me at 10:30 to let me know that. I have known this friend as long as I have known H: 40 years. We all met in middle school, which was called junior high back then. I have no problem with his friend, but I did find out that friend is D'ing W and not the other way around.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page