Glad to hear from you. You sound well centered and grounded.
I agree that you need to tell the kids. Sooner rather than later. I think it better they find out/discuss with you and Mom than hear it from the grape vine.
The big message, the biggest message during that talk with the kids - the problems between you and W has nothing to do with them. You love them and none of this is their fault.
Kids are very egocentric and can take on blame and fault when it’s truly unwarranted. They’ll have questions. Be open, honest, and age appropriate.
Take care, and best of luck on acquiring the rental.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
