I completely understand the GAL phrase and why it is said so often. I was completely out of control just as H was when this all started. All I heard from my friends/family was, "take care of you" over and over and over again. I was like, "this is new to me, can yall just let me breathe for a moment, try to figure out what just happened and why." I am way past all of that now. Sorry if the GAL phrase is a bit triggering as well as the phrase, "you need to." Don't mean to cause controversy by any means, so please don't take it that way. I do still have questions at different times as I drive 80miles a day between my jobs, that's a lot of alone time and time to think.

My thoughts (just thoughts) today are should I email the "ex"OW and defend the lies she was told about me and our marriage?

Do I just say bump all of this, call my attorney and just be done with all of it?

In all reality I'm not gonna do either of those things, they're just thoughts.

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