Mirage,

I also have some questions. It's obvious they don't listen to anybody that tells them the truth, so who do they listen to?
During the NC do they think abt what the LBS is doing, who they're doing it with, like I'm sure most LBS's do? Do they go places and do things that remind them of the LBS? Do they remember anything they've said or did? Do they remember anything the LBS said or did?
I know, I know I need to GAL then those thoughts won't b so prevalent. Well, I do have a life, I also have alone time and have been with him pretty much my whole life, sorry I don't switch gears that fast, it's only been 1yr 8months since the separation(don't really know how long the crisis has been going on).