And so it happened....since I anticipated the below questions, H has since asked the first three and in that order. The direction is to not have him take me and so I have secured another ride. Yet, I've 'led him to believe' that he is taking me bc I've welcomed H to take me to all other doc appts. It's assumed. How do I answer question #3 if H is not to take me? and then #4 which is inevitable.
How do you propose I answer: 1. How did the medical exam go? 2. Did you get results yet from the exam? (assuming I don't provide the detail he expects at any pt) 3. What time would you like me to pick you up tomorrow for surgery? (I do have someone who can take me). 4. What do you mean you don't need me to take you? I took the day off? 5. How are you feeling? Do you need anything? (post surgery) 6. Is something wrong? You've changed (I know he's noticed that I'm not so eager to engage).
