Also because im not moving elsewhere here, anything she doesnt want and i decide to keep, has to be inventoried for customs clearance as im planning on shipping things on a container overseas, so dates are important for this. All i need from her is s yes i want to keep this or no, but that has been difficult to do. My parents moved overseas and sent a shipping container and you have to declare pretty much every single item, for duties and customs clearance, so its a detailed process.