You aren’t detached at all Cat. The fact you are still snooping tells us that. This isn’t a fake it til you make it situation.
You can’t control her and what she does and when she does it, and I guarantee that letter your lawyer just sent will be viewed as an act of control. She gave you a date, and you didn’t like it, so here comes the lawyers letter.
Stop worrying about her and her stuff. It’s not your responsibility or problem. Worry about you and your stuff.
Drop the rope and stop snooping on her.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
