I'm going to highjack for 1 minute because this site is such a benefit to so many.
Mack1, my true online friend. My life is wonderful. It is so different from what you ask me I wanted and I don't regret any of it. It's been an amazing journey. I can picture all of us sitting around a campfire. You, me, truegitter, Cat, Job, DNJ and many others enjoying where we are in life. True successes.
Now Whatlee, Mach1 asked me what I wanted and yes, I wanted a reconciled marriage and my Exw to come through mid life as well and join me. I too wanted success to mean that. What I didn't know then that success could be many other things. Mach1's questions opened up the possibility that my journey in life may be elsewhere.
So for you, yes give your husband over to god, but don't stop. Keep working on yourself and grow from this. A whole different path may be on your horizon. Yes, you could be a success in restoring your marriage as others have, or you may be a LBS who finds a new path that reenergizes herself in a whole new way.
As you can see older posters do come back and in there past have tried and succeeded in helping the newer posters navigate this time in their life. It's tough to appreciate that this is a gift to us, but anytime you can grow up, become more healthy and strong and become a better person, I don't know what else to call it.
