So last week she came over, took some furniture. We still have a full basement and garage, cupboards, shelves, pantries etc left. I was expecting her to come over this weekend as its a long weekend here and go through things and pick what she wants to keep and what she doesnt so i can separate and dump/give away whats left. The response i got today was "i have plans this weekend" which is frustrating brcause she uses im working during the week excuse but weekends based on my instagram snooping of her account shes making plans with her new knight and shining armor protector. So she cant be bothered.
So i gave her a set date of June 16th, day after that everything is assumed to be garbage. She replies ill get things by the 22nd which is a mere handful of days before closing. Message is followed by im warning you not to touch my things. Well clearly shes in antagonize me mode and not taking anything seriously, i sent an email to lawyer and she is going to get a letter in the mail.
Im actually starting to literally despise this woman and am wanting her out of my life as soon as possible
Im seeing her interactions and behaviour towards me much of the same as before, like a cycle, every time she finds a new guy and love bombs them and goes deep into infatuation mode i become enemy number 1. When things dont go well with OMs she tries to manipulate me. She is clearly doubling down on her emotional rollercoaster ride that is her emotions. I think im at the pure indifference and disdain mentality right now. I cant have this person in my life in any manner whatsoever. Its bad enough all the disrespect i got during affairs, after affair discovery, during reconciliation, after reconciliation, that i now have to endure the continued disrespect. Sometimes you have to let people destroy themselves but keep as much distance as possible.
Never stay on a ship thats about to hit an iceberg with a drunken captain steering it.
