So if a therapist/ counselor can't help them how do they come out of it? Is it something they just snap out of one day? Also, I have read a lot of other post on here and haven't read too many success stories, a lot of exh/exw talk(that's not success in my opinion cause I choose to stand), in those ex situations was it the LBS that decide not to stand or the MLCer that chose to go ahead with a D?
I think that success can mean very different things, and it will ebb and flow for you as time dealing with MLC goes on.
Right now ?
You are only seeing a very narrow version of success.
Because you are defining it on a very specific goal..
The success rate here is tremendous in my opinion...
Because I don't define success merely as remaining married or being divorced.
To be more specific though, there are success stories everywhere here.
You may not see them, or read about them because the majority of people who have reconciled have stopped posting, and their reconciliation stories have not been posted here.
I will tell you this though...
In the end..
EVERY story here, reconciled or not, has ultimately come down to the LBS's decision...
