Here are some questions that may come my way and I want to be sure I answer them in a way that is appropriate based on where we are. I hope you know enough about my situation that you can weigh in. I think he's doing some touch-n-goes. And, I'm trying to DB and remember that he is barely being a friend and definitely not a spouse (like I want him to be). I'm trying to demand respect. Or at least that is what I tell myself.
How do you propose I answer: 1. How did the medical exam go? 2. Did you get results yet from the exam? (assuming I don't provide the detail he expects at any pt) 3. What time would you like me to pick you up tomorrow for surgery? (I do have someone who can take me). 4. What do you mean you don't need me to take you? I took the day off? 5. How are you feeling? Do you need anything? (post surgery) 6. Is something wrong? You've changed (I know he's noticed that I'm not so eager to engage).
Or at least that is what I tell myself.
