Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Most men arriving here have too loose boundaries...and lose respect...in turn losing attraction.

Originally Posted by grok
I had been considering if I should place a boundary on the timing. Some of her behavior irritated me also. Sometimes I have too much patience.


When you....
I fell....
If you...
I will...


Go ahead and fill this out..not that you have to send it to her, but rather you will firm this up in your mind.

Getting my beliefs, thoughts, words, facial expressions, tones, timing and actions all in alignment is part of what I learned during this process. Continue to work on getting them all in alignment with her.


The only thing I will add to this is...



Boundaries are meant to protect yourself...

Not to punish the WAS/MLCer....