Originally Posted by uRworthy
T, I think that for most mlcers, there is a need to see it through.
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The ultimate act of love is completely letting go.

https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2343270#Post2343270

Email from W today

Please let me know if you have not received notice of this or have a conflict that day. Thank you!

Sent from my iPhone

Begin forwarded message:

From: Attorney/Mediator
Date: May 6, 2024

Please review the details below for your upcoming appointment.

When: Mon 13 May, 2024 Service: FINAL MEDIATION SESSION


Each time my soul is torn a little more. Time to write up those minor changes a L recommended. i.e. make the limited alimony non-changeable. Revisit access to the home on a yearly basis.

and the personal changes i.e. Whereas M is irretrievably broken -> Whereas W believes M is irretrievably broken. H does not agree or disagree but believes the future is unwriten. H leaves W to her

choice in men?
affair?
agency?
Hmmmm... avoid snark and mean. Disagree and leave the future to be what we make it.

From a relationship advisor on X today:

Quote
Women today believe they deserve more than they actually do.
Most are living in fantasy land.
That’s why they…

Don’t marry
Get divorced
End up cheating

Staying Single:
“I can find a guy that meets X, Y, Z (unrealistic standards) so I’m not going to get married.”

Divorce:
“I deserve a guy that does X, Y or Z, my man doesn't, time to divorce.”

Cheating:
“My man doesn't do X, Y, Z to make me feel loved so I’ll find a guy that does.”

They’re unwilling to accept reality so a life long relationship will never be possible.

G, " is my wife's answer to her unhappiness right now"

Advisor, "That’s not the answers to her problems, it will only add to them 😔"


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H:55 XW:50
D19, D18, S13
ILYBINILWY 3/23
DB1 4/23, rescinded 5/23, DB2 6/23 ("I can't do this, I Love HIM")
Legal Mediation 1-5 & W leaves 8/23 – 3/24
Settlement 5/24, Court 9/11/24 <-, D 9/16/24