Just about done

[DnJ]

Good Morning Catman

Yes, W is dragging her feet. She’s not embracing responsibility. Not really new, is it?

Her response to your two messages is likely coached. Oh well. Doesn’t matter. Gives her someone else to blame (other than you and especially herself ) when/if things go awry. The whole not embracing responsibility theme she’s got going on.

You asked. She responded. And not too favourably for getting things done.

First off, go buy yourself some new luggage. I’m guessing your separation agreement doesn’t spell out who owns the luggage. If she has it, let it be her’s. Don’t sweat the small stuff, you got enough on your plate.

The house is sold. Closes end of June.

“Can you use the actuary the mediator recommended to get your pension valuation because we arent going to get it on time and separation agreement wont be ready by house closing”

Yes, time is ticking by. I’d speak with your lawyer about a couple of things.

If her not providing documentation is going to derail the house sale or the separation process. Also get legal proceedings started to ensure she complies if required. See what needs to happen to ensure the sale.

It does sound like the house sale is happening regardless.

if this house isn't clear by closing we are liable to being sued by buyers.

W might get her act together. Or might show up on hour elven with OM and a bunch of his friends and toss her stuff in the pack of some pick-up trucks. Or she might completely flake out. Speak with your L and see how these scenarios affect you, legally. Can you be sued? What are your options if so?

I’d run this idea by your lawyer, and if ok be prepared to do so. A week before closing (or even now if L says it’s ok), rent a storage shed. Move her stuff into it. Pay the storage rent for one month past the closing date. Have L send her the key and a letter telling her where her stuff is. Wash your hands of her stuff and her irresponsibly towards the sale.

D