If you want a chance of drawing your H back, you will do what Job outlines above.

You also have to have fun doing it.

There is a whole list of statements you need to burn into your brain. Start with these:

"I was busy."
"nothing you need to worry about"
"With friends" if he ask who "nobody you know"

The less you share with him, the better.

Changing the way you interact with him is extremely important.




This is a game with high stakes. Learn to play the game well.


HUGS

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712