You don't control it right now, but it seems to me the advice around here is that the LBS does control the relationship in the end. And if you haven't gotton to that point yet then it is not the end.
- True - *reset thought process*
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I think.
So much value here seems to be in re-setting thought processes. Beginners mind. Delete "always" "never" "but" etc. and on.
Originally Posted by Cadet
Short posts - that me!!
dunno...run across some things in archive...
Aside - Is trauma trigger -> MLC -> WAS more common than I thought? This is unsettling. I was at a <scout like troop> activity for S12 over the weekend. The father whose home was hosting the event and I talked for a bit. Over the last 2 years his W was in an accident -> just turned 40 -> decided she had missed out on college crazy years -> left solid middle class life to live in public housing and have s*x at as many college parties as she can.
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H:55 XW:50 D19, D18, S13 ILYBINILWY 3/23 DB1 4/23, rescinded 5/23, DB2 6/23 ("I can't do this, I Love HIM") Legal Mediation 1-5 & W leaves 8/23 – 3/24 Settlement 5/24, Court 9/11/24 <-, D 9/16/24
