Reasons not to snoop or sometimes snooping finds you
Originally Posted by TSquared2
It is funny how we can be going along all detached and coping okay, then some little thing sets off a trigger and bam! it is all in front of our face and taking over our minds and hearts, again.
Breaking off a piece of detach....back to trusting God, the universe, etc. (oh, AND trusting ME!).
W is sometimes not careful with what she thinks is communication with OM or sometimes doesn't realize what can be visible on social media. Last year she described this is how she "secretly" communicated with him by responding to anon social media posts. "Oh, G, this is just him protecting his family. His the most caring man in the world." What is this warped thinking?
Yesterday my detachment thrown for a while when in my FB feed appeared her comment of "Take a cold shower? <LOL emoji><Halo emoji><kiss emoji><fire emoji>" in response to a meme of "You are all I need to set my dirtiest fantasies in motion" by account Love and Lust.
D17 later, "What's wrong daddy? Did something bad happen?" G, "Just something between me and your mother. I'm sorry for making you worry. YOU are fine and wonderful."
I'm not even sure if many of these things are real communication. They may be social media AI giving her feed what she reacts to. She believes OM follows her (or sends "his people" to) around town because she is too precious to him. Or flies drones over to visit her sometimes. I saw only birds flying by.
From T2's thread -
"Do you have the patience to wait until the mud settles and the water is clear? Can you remain unmoving until the right action arises by itself?" Lao Tsu
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H:55 XW:50 D19, D18, S13 ILYBINILWY 3/23 DB1 4/23, rescinded 5/23, DB2 6/23 ("I can't do this, I Love HIM") Legal Mediation 1-5 & W leaves 8/23 – 3/24 Settlement 5/24, Court 9/11/24 <-, D 9/16/24