Not much I can add, other than that my situation is practically a mirror of yours. I guess it's practically a mirror of a lot of other people's on this site as well.

Screenshotted that Zues126 quote on marriage vows. It expresses my views better than anything else I've read.


Me 59 W 47
T 26 M 23
S18, S14
BD May 2023
D filed June 2023
OM1 confirmed: December 2023
OM2 confirmed: October 2023