So she is now hellbent on separation. Told me today that I always think too much black and white, and that we should be thinking out of the box. I have a suspicion that this means she wants me to suggest that I move out - and maybe her emotional affair or friends get to move in!?

Unfortunately will now need to consult a lawyer. I will not suggest any steps but look at protecting myself and the kids.

I think my confrontation of her on Monday brought this to the fore. Not sure if otherwise we could have coexisted for a while longer given her recent musings about holidays together etc. Now I have become even more of the horrible man she has to get rid of. I do not feel great about where this has gotten to. I could have done better...but now I am where I am and need to accept that things will not be easy for a while.

I have lost the love of my life. I am heartbroken.

Last edited by DnJ; 03/22/24 03:04 PM. Reason: Corrected typo.