Just about done

[Ready2Change]

I heard this the other day, and thought some on the board could benifit:

PsycHacks- Your PRIME objective should be to become attractive. To become a man that women are attracted to. That's how you get your foot in the door, and the good news is, it's really good news, that most of the things that actually relate to female attraction, are things that you can learn and develop. These are things like, being physically fit knowing how to dress, learning the art of charming conversation, choosing a life mission, attaining success and picking up some game. These are things that women respond to. These are also all skills that you can learn and they all benefit you directly with the indirect benefit of making you more attractive to women. So whats the hold up?

I have my list of things. Each of us needs to have our unique list and continually work on it.

This is good:

just said I don't want to be in an open marriage

I see this as her buying time, I'm willing to give it to her

I think giving her time is not. Pulling away is attractive.

This is good:

I'm beginning to become indifferent

she seems very bitter and resentful towards me

Pulling away and giving her time and space will reduce the resentment.

I'm starting to get to the point where I am feeling a lot better about myself and my future and I honestly don't think I can even consider any olive branch towards her if I don't see radical change

YUP. Focus on you...until she is begging you to take her back...that is usually a long ways out in the future.