One of the guys I follow stated that he mentally adds "I FEEL" to the beginning of what a woman says and adds "RIGHT NOW" to the end.

"I FEEL "
Originally Posted by Maturin
"I have never been attracted to you and look at our relationship like an arranged marriage, having only married you because my family liked you and I thought it would settle me down."
"RIGHT NOW".

Makes it very easy for us (me) to stay grounded and and not argue.

On top of that, there is no point in any rational discussions (or arguing) with someone who has been drinking. The drinks do help bring out some truths that sober people may not be willing to speak.

Just my 2 cents.






YOU are doing great.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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