Thank you so much for all of this, and I am so glad to hear your update. those are great plans and accomplishments for your son. My son worked with me at my company for a while and my husband went off on him about how he wasn't doing anything with his life working at an event coordinating company. funny thing is is that we both make a significant amount more than my husband. they are nutty and only see their view.

I do think the pulling away is helping me in my situation a lot. My Husband has accused me of trying to "turn the kids against him." All because the kids wanted to curl up in bed with me and watch tv in my room. I guess he finely learned if he wants us with him he can ask or act like he wants us. the kids and I got home from a game the other day and my son asked to go and watch tv in my bed. My husband waited for about 30 minutes and said "How about we have a movie night in the living room with all of us? And we can let Mama pick the movie because she doesn't get to pick the show a lot." We had a good night and I made sure I said how much I liked us all being together. It is odd to me that just with majorly pulling back and not trying to talk at all has helped.I do know he is still in contact with the ap, and there have been some days that I know there has been some drama between them and she is looking at my social media quite often. I dont think she knows i can see this because she has a burner account but she is doing it from her phone so it shows me it is her phone number. lol. I am hoping for her to go crazy on him enough to teach him a good lesson to never do this again.

Last edited by DnJ; 03/08/24 04:55 PM. Reason: Correct typo.