Originally Posted by JosephS
If you only have a room to rent, you need to focus on what’s important and, though I do feel for you, and an sympathetic to the cat situation, what are you going to do about your children you have every other weekend?

What made you decide to take all of the bills, not get alimony or support of any kind, not have the property division set up, but sign the papers anyway?


im looking at a room where the female owner is ok with my daughter staying in a room across from mine when she is with me that is set up for a girl for when her friends little girl would visit with her.

the lawyer i spoke to said that getting the divorce over with before i get my settlement would be best. i didnt have the money to hire a lawyer. we divided the property up fairly and she gave me some stuff that she didnt have to. we thought it would be a long shot for support from her. if i can get enough back from my settlement i will be able to pay off all my debt and have a small nest egg. i dont want my wife to get half of that so the quicker i get this over the better.