If I may ask, what’s changed in a week? You came here a week ago looking to save the marriage and now are fully accepting you’re getting a divorce.
You’ve only wasted the time if you don’t learn and grow from it.
You’re too focused on her and what her reactions will be to the divorce or seeing you with another woman.
You also just made and excuses and blamed her for your faults. (Anxiety/insecurity)
I’m not saying you’re wrong and she’s blameless and I’m not saying she’s justified in her behavior in any way shape or form.
Divorce busting is about working on yourself and saving yourself and the side effect to that is potentially saving your marriage. Even if you accepted you can’t be with her anymore, there is still work to do.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
