Don't take out a loan for her right now. Horrible timing.
She's all over the place. The question she asked you "what do you actually want from life, what do you want to do with yourself", is the one she appears to be struggling with. But then again, we all do from time to time.
The biggest thing you can do is become a more attractive man and work on yourself.
Keep focusing on you and what you can control. Have a PMA (positive mental attitude). Do the right thing always. Prepare for the worst, hope for the best, and never lose faith that no matter what happens you will overcome this hardship and be better for it.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
