I just joined DB and I'm at the same stage as Rockon, my house is going on the market in 3 weeks. She also suggested to me we keep the house, I said no way, the house is dead to me and continuing owning it with her and then having a 3rd party (OM) involved is not something j would ever want, not to mention having the legal/financial connection to her. She even tried to buy me out by saying she would, I know her income, I found it highly dubious, so I asked her to put it in writing either through our mediator or lawyer. It seemed to me like a stall tactic. I say either you guys buy one another out or sell the house. Do you really want to be in the house where your marriage was destroyed? Reliving memories or owning it with her and having to deal with OM. Not a healthy sitch, heck I hate going home I stay out as late as possible only use the place for basic human functions. I think she's toying wjth you much like mine is, unless it's on paper from a lawyer it ain't worth what she says.
