Fabulous to read your update Pattnee. What a difference a year makes eh? You're doing great. The detaching is funny. It used to be so hard but comes naturally now & it's always a bit of a shock when his crazy behaviour [censored] me back in to that black hole (fortunately doesn't happen often) I love this forum. I don't think either of us would be where we are without the useful words & advice others shared. Keep going, you're doing great girl (plus, with all your boxing, you'll have a great right hook if he ever does step out of line!)
