Good Morning Card

Nicely done with the diet. And feeling good about it.

Glad to see S2 (and you smile ) had a great time looking at farm machinery. Yes, a couple of hours of such fun and he’d be out like a light on the ride home. Wonderful to read that daughter is in band. I’m sure she finds it enjoyable. Music is a fantastic skill and life’s companion.

It’s good to see you letting your guard down and more embracing the loss. Grief comes in waves, and is not linear. Different facets of one’s loss will emerge from the shroud of denial as one gain the bandwidth to process them. Therefore, one is in many stages of grief simultaneously. Some things we are depressed about, others angry, and others we are bargaining and struggling to squeeze them into that old feeling of norm. Some stuff we have found acceptance with and others we don’t even realize yet. All perfectly normal progress.

Originally Posted by Card29
I think that led to me prematurely thinking I was already okay when I wasn't. I still have a lot of work to do, but I'm back on track to doing it.

Good for you.

And I agree, limiting or even alcohol-free allows better processing and journeying through one’s grief.

Have a great day Card.

D


Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.