Hey T. I'm just popping my head up to say that this is all normal stuff. Transitions take time - as much time as they require. We can help by staying on our path of continued self-improvement, knowing that we're doing the right things as best we can. Sorry to hear you're son is sick and struggling a bit with guilt. We know it isn't his fault and there's no reason to feel guilty. I hope you can have a good heart-to-heart with him to listen to what he is experiencing.
I suspect you've still got some routines, at least ones that are within your control, that you provide some stability. Of course, you're also building new ones as you move through the transition that is D. Keep up the good work, one foot in front of the other, every day. Continue giving yourself and your son 100%. You'll know when you're not and luckily in most cases we get the next day to try again. All the best, P.
