If she sent it, it was to temp check to make sure you’re still plan B. Thus why the don’t sell the house.
You shouldn’t feel respected. And quite honestly you disrespect yourself by continue to put yourself in places she’s gonna be.
Wouldn’t it be nice to have a nice day and not have to talk about her?
You keep putting yourself in these situations.
I really think you need to go NC, find a new group of friends, give your kids the space to make a new life away from your and your wife’s nonsense and find who you are without them.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11