I don’t know why no one told me that’s a good question. She showed up for an hour tops and S and I were there with everyone else for the whole day honestly having the time of our lives. My family and I are loved in this community. She has not spent much time around them since BD, just dropping in once in awhile.
My plan is to forward the email to L as well as the separation agreement W drafts and sends to me.
Minimal upbeat interaction: I was having a great time and didn’t change my tone or presence when she arrived. I gave her a wide berth and didn’t focus on her. She came over and said goodbye when she left at the first few drops of rain. I said goodbye. And S and I stayed to the end.
She texted a meme about Grandkids preferring their Grampas to me today and followed that with, “Everyday I wonder if I’m doing the right thing. You are a really good man. You brought up counseling many times in the past and I never agreed to go.”
