Than don’t be around her and keep your distance. Your mental health and well being are the upmost importance.

And you’ve said you’ve seen the answer clearly emerging or a variation of it few times over a period.

Question is, what are you going to do differently about it?

Me: 40
EX:37
Together 17 years
Married 16 years
5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11

BD 03/06/20, divorced 12/23/21