L suggested that with me buying out the house I could propose to waive the amount of child support and reduce the money I pay to buy her out by that amount.
Interesting. In my locale child support is one of the only two things that cannot be negotiated or waived.
It sounds like W would owe you child support and in forgoing or reducing those payments you could likely reduce your buy out amount. Sounds reasonable.
Any proposal for alimony, pensions, and old age/social security (or whatever your locale calls it)?
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