I have a mental challenge/hurdle in that we are in negotiation stage and yet I don’t want to do the heavy lifting in dividing our assets.
This is where I find myself and so it requires courage and proposing a settlement I agree with as DnJ has said.
Unfortunately the heavy lifting advice usually costs the LBS in the settlement. The longer it drags out the higher likely the WW loses the guilt and receives advice from AP, friends etc and goes back on things they originally agreed to. I know it happened to me. It’s ok if you don’t want to get the ball rolling but once it starts you want to do what’s best for you.
What is the proposal for child support for your adult kids?
