Even if she does realise the consequences in 5-10 years, she will still never admit it. To hold out for that or think you’re going to get some sort of closure or vindication from it is a fool’s errand.
I agree; I'm certainly not expecting her to say, "I didn't make the best of decisions and could have handled this differently."
She dumped me, my sister is angry that she did and wants no part of her, end of story. She should just let it go and stop with the "I regret that we don't talk anymore" spiel.
Me 59 W 47 T 26 M 23 S18, S14 BD May 2023 D filed June 2023 OM1 confirmed: December 2023 OM2 confirmed: October 2023