Again (I haven’t taken time to review your post history) Maturin, have you reached out for support for you and your kids around W’s drinking?
In your community or online there can be some good fits for you with people who have been there before and can support and facilitate you staying on track and doing what is right for your family.
I have and still do this.
If you haven’t read it, I recommend you grab a copy of “Get Your Loved One Sober” from your local library and let us know here what you think.
All my best with solidarity hope respect and humble care.
