Originally Posted by Valeska19
If you were to say those words to her... they would currently fall on deaf ears. She is not able to have emotionally mature conversations.
Saying the words is not nearly as important as clarifying in your mind the details. Then you can logically make these hard decisions.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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