Then share your family net worth with them. Then they can decide how much of that they want, agree to argue with each other for as many billable hours it will take to drain you both. After all of your net worth is gone, they will decide to settle so you will not have to go before a judge to make the final decisions.
Put the cookie on the table (all your assets/debt). One person gets to split the cookie. The other person gets to pick which half they want. Do not quibble about the crumbs.
You let her split the cookie first. If your part looks significantly bigger. accept her split. , If her part looks significantly bigger, break off a part that makes it even. If she agrees, great. If not go to the mediator.
Right now, you have almost the whole cookie. You can eat as much of the cookie as you want until the divorce paper work is filed with the courts.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
