Originally Posted by Rockon
W: “Hi Rock...Take care, W
I agree, no response. If you must, wait several weeks.

This is my first draft on how I would respond to my X:

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To be clear, I am supporting your decision. I believe you are confusing the word fight with argue. Negotiate might be a better term.

My understand of the process:
The first step in negotiation is your proposal on what you think would be a kind and thoughtful agreement.
The second step would be reviewing, and giving you my counter proposal.
We repeat those steps several times.
If we get stuck, then we hire a mediator to help resolve the differences.

Regards,
Rock

My thoughts on how I came up with that.

Fight has multiple definitions. You do not want anyone to beleieve physical fighting happened. Start using the most approriate words from now on. Words have specific meanings in the legal world.

Negotiate the process now. Clarify the process with her.


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